Searching For A Counseling Near Me [I Expect To Get My Daughter Back]

I had experienced what most parents fear whenever their child reaches adolescence, and I used to think that some people who said it’s hard are exaggerating. I was thinking to myself, “My daughter will be the same little person I used to carry and cuddle around. It’s not like she’s transforming into some monster!”

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When my daughter turned 15, she met a lot of different people at school. She was influenced by how they thought, acted, and dresses. There were times I stopped her from leaving the house because she was wearing something that never for a thousand years will I be thinking of wearing. She told me, “Mom, it’s the 21st century, duh!” She also skipped class, and there was a time I found a pack of cigarettes in her pocket while I was doing the laundry. I heard her curse, and there was even a time when she came home past her curfew all smelling alcohol.

I know and I believe it was my fault as I was too busy making a living, but what can I do? I had to! Her dad left us when she was seven, and ever since then, I had been working double to make sure she gets the same opportunity as other kids. I don’t want her to pity herself and feel the absence of her dad.

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One day, I was called to the principal’s office because she was failing. Her adviser said she’s afraid she’s not going to move up if she continues to misbehave. I then said to myself, “I don’t want this life for her, and I know where this is heading. I love her so much, and I’m her only parent. I have to do everything in my power to wean her from this path.”

Her adviser and I then discussed the things we could do to help my daughter, and I really appreciated her concern. She advised me about bringing my daughter to counseling. Maybe she could benefit from it. I listened to her and browsed the internet. I read through every therapist profile until I thought I found the best person to help my daughter. We then visited the clinic and right there and then, the therapist and I set our expectations, and to my relief, I thought that was it.

 

I Expect Counseling To Help My Daughter:

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  • Understand her worth, that she is too special to waste her life
  • Think twice about taking her education for granted
  • Respect herself not to wear clothes which are not appropriate for her
  • Give importance to her health and stop drinking and smoking
  • Remember her dreams that we used to talk about
  • See me as her best friend and that there is nothing else I want for her but the best

 

Sometimes, it’s hard to accept that you cannot help your child first hand. Initially, I couldn’t bear the thought that I needed somebody else to help my daughter get through her teenage crisis – It should have been me who’s helping her.” However, I am confident that I made the right decision of searching for counseling near me to get my daughter back. Perhaps it could turn all my expectations to reality.